How To Talk Dirty On the Phone
You may think that learning how to talk dirty on the phone is similar to learning how to talk dirty in person, but there are certain major differences that set the two, a world apart.
Since your bodies are not in the same place, talking dirty on the phone is 100% reliant on your voice and words alone. Your appearance, touch, and physical energy are missing from the dirty talk you would have otherwise.
This means that your vocal tonality, pacing, and dirty talk phrases must compensate for this lack through igniting your guy’s fantasy. Replacing what’s physically unavailable with a mental projection of what is possible. Fortunately, since a man’s fantasy can almost run itself. Your talking dirty will conjure up only his inner most sexual ideals, he will envision you as the fantasy girl of his dreams. The trick is in how you trigger his fantasy to start with.
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Here are a few things to focus on when you are talking dirty on the phone to your man, so that he will picture the exciting imagery in his fantasy mind:
1) Set The Stage:
As you learn how to talk dirty on the phone, start with a mental picture of where you are and what you’re doing. If you ask him what he’s doing right now, he will most likely respond with the same question. You can reply with something like “Oh, I’m just laying around in my silky black nightgown, all by myself, thinking about you and how hot you make me.”
This type of descriptive dirty talk phrase unleashes his mind to perceive what that scenario looks like. Once the stage has been set in his fantasy, you can move on.
2) Get the “Go Ahead”:
Talking dirty on the phone obviously leads to mutual masturbation. But before you get all hot and heavy with your dirty talk, make sure to know, if that is possible for the both of you to do at that moment. Since you already asked what he was doing- right now – you will have an idea if masturbation is even possible on his end. If its not, you might want to save your phone sex for another time.
If you DO “get the go ahead,” you can take your dirty talk to the next level. Saying something like “Oh my god, I’ve been so hot all day I can’t stop touching myself!” Say this in a coy, innocent manner. It will aid in his fantasy (in which the stage is already set) by including you masturbating in whatever way his personal fantasy thinks is the hottest way possible.
3) Do the Deed:
Once your dirty talk has now set the stage and gotten the green light, it’s time to get down to talking dirty on the phone and getting super sexual. Your dirty talk thus far has given him a mental image that you now want to manipulate in his mind. He’s thinking about you looking sexy and masturbating, so now ask him: “Do you like when I touch myself for you?” (or however way you’d like to say it, using any dirty words or dirty talk phrases you know). His answer will obviously be “yes.” You can then follow up with “Good, cause I’m doing it right now.” Music to his ears.
If you’re doing the dirty deed, he will start as well. Ask him if he’s touching himself, or just demand that he does. This is where your real phone sex starts to escalate into something super hot and heavy for both of you. You then start talking dirty to your man the way you would normally. His masturbation replaces your touch, his fantasy replaces your presence, and your voice is in total control of it all.
Learning how to talk dirty to your man on the phone means understanding how your dirty talk affects him while the two of you are apart. If you follow this three step method you will find it much easier to talk dirty on the phone as you would talking dirty in real life. It’s just a matter of learning how to talk dirty to your man by manipulating his fantasy mind as the top priority of your dirty talk.
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